Senior dating across America.

Dating over 60 in the United States.

America is a big place, and meeting someone at a similar stage of life isn't always easy once the office, the PTA and the kids' sports games are behind you. Over 60 Love is a dating site for single Americans aged 60 and up who want companionship, friendship or a new relationship, without the noise of apps built for twenty-somethings.

Our pages are designed to be easy to read, with large text you can enlarge further using the A buttons at the top of every page, and the site works in the browser on your phone, tablet or computer.

Dating over 60 for women and men.

"Dating over 60 for women" and "dating over 60 for men" are both common searches, and the advice overlaps more than you might think. Be honest about what you want. Use a recent photo. Ask questions and listen to the answers. If you're newly divorced or widowed, go at your own pace; our guide to dating in your 60s covers both.

First date ideas

• Coffee or brunch at a local diner or café, in the daytime.
• A farmers' market on a Saturday morning, with plenty to look at and talk about.
• A walk in a state or city park, choosing an easy, well-used trail.
• A museum or botanical garden, with plenty to talk about and places to sit.
• A matinee at a local theater or movie house.

Snowbirds and long distances

Many retirees split the year between states, spending winters somewhere warmer. If that's you, say so on your profile, so people know where and when you'll be around. Distances in the US can be large, so think about how far you'd realistically travel. VIP members can search by city and distance to focus on people close by.

How Over 60 Love works.

Joining is free. Create your profile, add a couple of recent photos and say what you enjoy. Every member gets daily match suggestions and can browse profiles; your location shows only as your nearest town or city. Free members can send a limited number of messages each day, and VIP members can message without limits and use filters such as city and distance. Members can choose to verify by ID, video or profile validation, and our support team is available 24/7. See pricing and safety for the details.

Staying safe

Romance scams target Americans of every age. Never send money, gift cards, wire transfers or cryptocurrency to someone you've met online, however convincing their story. Video call before meeting, meet in public, and tell someone where you're going. If you think you've been targeted, stop contact, report the profile and contact your bank and local law enforcement. Our guide to dating red flags over 60 has more.